Linda is a success ,hard work pays after all...
I'm sure most of you have heard by now - that I recently bought a
house...:-). Of course I had to bring it here and share my joy with you
all...my amazing LIB family. God first and you guys second made it
possible. So, I bought a two-storey luxury house in the exclusive Banana
Island area of Ikoyi...and to be honest, I still can't believe it. It's
everything I prayed my house would be. That's me standing in front of
my house...:-). #ProudSelfMadeWoman...:-)
The house is on 3 floors consisting of 6 en-suite bedrooms, a master
suite with a separate walk-in closet/dressing room and a massive
bathroom suite, 2 living rooms, media room, cinema room, gym room,
laundry room, a fully fitted kitchen, with a large pantry. Two room
boys-quarters, a gatehouse, swimming pool, waterfall wall, changing
room, cabana, and amazing water-view. Absolutely my dream home. Dreams
do come true, you know! Click read more to see photos of the house...
My house, my mum and my car...:-)
The compound
Sitting room
It's a glass house so you can see everything that's happening outside...:-)
Still the sitting room
The pool area
Happy woman. Had to wear my Selfmade Tee...:-)
The lawn - working on it to make it more lovely
Other side of the building...
They are cleaning the pool. Who wants to come teach me how to swim? :-)
And the master suite... my bedroom. I've never seen anything like it in
real life...lol. It's so big, I don't even know how to decorate it...
Walking in my bedroom
Still my bedroom. Has a lounge area...lol. Choi!
And my walk-in closet...my bags and shoes are so happy! :-)
I'm having them add some things so work is on going there
And the most grand part of the house is my luxury bathroom...it has a Jacuzzi, bathtub and shower...
Me in my bathroom! Can't believe this is my life now...
The view from my Jacuzzi
My Penthouse Terrace
My parents looking around in amazement...lol. My mum couldn't believe this is her new home...lol
The kitchen...my mum's favourite part of the house
Living in the house with my family. When I marry, I will move out! *sad face*..lol
The house is spectacular at night...
Now to all the young girls looking at these photos, please read below..
My name is Linda Ikeji. I'm a blogger. I'm 35 years old and I have
never...never ever in my life slept with a man for money. Not only have I
never done it, I have never even considered it...and here I am with a
house that cost me over half a billion naira.
Listen, you are beautiful and you are stronger than you know. There's
absolutely nothing you can't achieve if you set your mind to it, put
your heart and soul into it.
Up until five years ago, I was a struggling entrepreneur. I can't tell
you how many offices in this Lagos I sat in for hours waiting to see
people who could support my business...but most times, I never passed
the reception area. But I never gave up and I never stopped believing
and here I am today.
You too can be this..you can be better than this. No dream is too big,
no dream is too small, no mountain is too high...it's all in your mind.
It's all up to you. If you believe in you, in your God who is guiding
you, then the sky is your starting point.
Please stop waiting around for a man to give to you...to put food on
your table and put clothes on your back. I promise you, you can do it
for yourself. Start thinking big, believe in yourself, be creative and
start working. Realize that your dreams are valid...and nobody will make
your dreams come true except you. Find what you are good at. Find
something that you are passionate about. Work hard at it. Be consistent.
Be patient. Start young. Even if you're not young, it's never too late!
I have been hustling since I left secondary school..started modeling
before I entered university in 1998. Was running a modeling agency even
while I was a student and made it a full time business after I left
university. I never doubted that I would succeed one day, because I was
determined. And please do not think this happened over night. I've been
blogging since 2006...November this year will make it exactly 9 years.
God, consistency and hard work brought me here today.
Unfortunately, a lot of our young girls aren't patient and some are
lazy, they want it quick and fast but it doesn't work like that. Success
takes time - takes hard work - takes passion - takes consistency - but
more than anything else, it takes the Grace of God.
I was a 30 year old broke woman and on my birthday, a very sad and
depressed me turned to God and begged him. I told Him you promised me,
when will You fulfill Your promise? Am I not Your child? Have I not
lived according to Your teachings? When will You bless me? Please God
help me...and with tears in my eyes, I begged Him. I cried and I begged
and I begged and I begged. A few months later my life changed. Never
underestimate God's love for you and the power of prayer.
And never stop working. Listen, I make enough money to hire so many
people to work on this blog while I go do other things and enjoy
myself...but I don't do that. I'm up while some of you are sleeping, and
already blogging before some of you wake up. I don't take this for
granted. I know to stay on top, I have to constantly work and nobody
will be as dedicated as I am because this is not their own thing. It's
mine and I have to keep feeding it. So I'm constantly here!
Young ladies, I promise you...you too can do this. You don't need to
spread your legs for any bladdy man - because of how much? N200k? That's
how much my shoes cost - so why should you give up your body for that?
Your sacred body? God's temple? N200k that you can make in a week or
even in a day if you pursue your dreams and still have your dignity
intact? You think people don't see that you're messing around with all
dem old married men and talking about it? Think ladies, think! When next
a man propositions you...tell him to get lost, that you will get yours
yourself! Abi, aren't you a woman? You know what they say about women?
"A woman is like a tea bag, you never know how strong she is until she
gets in hot water.". You are so strong, you don't even know!
Also, if you want God to bless you, you have to have a clean heart. All
these backbiting, hating on others, trying to bring people down with
hateful words/actions etc - God doesn't like ugly. He has over 6 billion
people to look after and you think he will pay extra attention to you
if your heart is ugly? Wish people well, help people when you can. Be
good to others. But more than anything else be good to yourself. Believe
in yourself. It's very easy to give in to feelings of self-doubt and
back down when things get tough, but you have to know that God will not
give you anything you can't handle.
I swear to you, you are underestimating yourself. If you know the power
that you have inside. If you know the things that you are capable of. If
you know how far you can go...how high you can reach but you are
holding yourself back because you're afraid of failing, because you
don't think you have it in you. If only you know that you're stronger
than you think. You are so powerful, you don't even know it. I'm not
more special than you are. I don't have two heads. We serve the same
God. Why can't you succeed? Think ladies, think.
Like Barack Obama's sister said, poverty is not an excuse! I used to
sell/market beer at Sheraton hotel, Lagos when I was in university for
N1,000 a day. I once lived on 'puff puff' and garri for weeks in UNILAG
and I was supposedly a top model but nobody knew what I was going
through.
Trust me, I knew poverty. Did you know I lived in Idi-oro, Mushin for 15
years? Up until when I was 25? Did you live in Mushin? Eh, so what's
your excuse? I can't even say some things here for my family's privacy
but here I am today because I never doubted myself and I never allowed
all the doubters to distract me. I was focused. I was determined. I
worked hard and I knew the God I served won't let me down. The road was
long, sometimes very frustrating and painful but look at me now. God did
it because he saw that I was willing!
"Because I am a woman, I must make unusual efforts to succeed. If I
fail, no one will say, “She doesn’t have what it takes.” They will say,
“Women don’t have what it takes.”
Please believe in yourself and watch God use you to set as an example for others.
May all your dreams come true!
Kisses.
Oh by the way (addressing the argument I read online this weekend) I
don't do anything else. I blog from 4am till midnight, where do I have
time to do anything else? When God wants to bless you, He will bless
you...even if you're selling toothpick.
Cheers!