It is important to know somethings because what you don't know can help
you into the gutter. It is not compulsory to be in a relationship or get
married, but when you finally decide to,make sure you think about it
very well Cos you making heaven also depends on your partner 'If you
marry wrong,there is high probability of you making Hell fire' (Pls
think about that sentence well before you quote ).
Some people are so naughty to the extent that when they are out of a relationship today,ask them tomorrow, they are in another. Can't you just stay on your own? Think about knowing yourself, loving yourself first. Understand that relationship is all about SACRIFICE and COMMITMENT and sacrifice means you have to go extra mile for your partner (Are you willing to do that?) Some people must have make mistakes in the past,let their coming into your life make them better.
Before you good into any relationship;
1- Be mentally and spiritually prepared...No matter How hard you think about it,you still need prayer.
2- know and update yourself (there's nothing like I know everything)
3- Be sure you are at peace with that person
4- Learn How to appreciate
5- Ask questions
6- Be sensitive ( but don't make it too annoying
)
7- Develop the right attitude (Be accommodating )
8- Dress well to attract what you want
9- Be ready to Share what you have ( so many people are very selfish, d word MY will No longer be there, it would be OUR)
10- Be emotionally prepared ( deal with your anger ,discipline yourself because you will always be tempted to be angry )
11- Be current ( Imagine your spouse taking out on a date and fortunately or unfortunately you find yourself in a gathering and you are just there like a furniture that can't contribute to any thing. Terrible right?
)
Relationship is not a thing you can jump into.Once you jump in,you fly out...
Some people are so naughty to the extent that when they are out of a relationship today,ask them tomorrow, they are in another. Can't you just stay on your own? Think about knowing yourself, loving yourself first. Understand that relationship is all about SACRIFICE and COMMITMENT and sacrifice means you have to go extra mile for your partner (Are you willing to do that?) Some people must have make mistakes in the past,let their coming into your life make them better.
Before you good into any relationship;
1- Be mentally and spiritually prepared...No matter How hard you think about it,you still need prayer.
2- know and update yourself (there's nothing like I know everything)
3- Be sure you are at peace with that person
4- Learn How to appreciate
5- Ask questions
6- Be sensitive ( but don't make it too annoying
)7- Develop the right attitude (Be accommodating )
8- Dress well to attract what you want
9- Be ready to Share what you have ( so many people are very selfish, d word MY will No longer be there, it would be OUR)
10- Be emotionally prepared ( deal with your anger ,discipline yourself because you will always be tempted to be angry )
11- Be current ( Imagine your spouse taking out on a date and fortunately or unfortunately you find yourself in a gathering and you are just there like a furniture that can't contribute to any thing. Terrible right?
)Relationship is not a thing you can jump into.Once you jump in,you fly out...
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