Most women claim that men are second in command to Lucifer when it comes to telling lies, but I can say, it's their own cup of coffee.
June 16 was the birthday anniversary of one of my ex-girlfriends when I was in the University. We were course mates and we became friends in our second year in the university. She is a good looking girl, with good manners, and very friendly. Sooner after we became friends, we started dating because we fell in love with each other.
There was a day I went to pay her a visit off-campus and for us to have a nice time together. After completing the needful 'copulation thing', she went out for shopping. While I was keeping myself busy with some of her credentials which she forgot on her reading table, I saw something that made me sad. A lady that claimed she loves me, lied about her age to me all along. She told me before then that I'm one year older than her. Her birth certificate that I saw proofed she is one year older than me. I was so shocked and betrayed. Not really because of the age but the lies. Why would she play on my intelligence? Besides she knows I love her wholeheartedly. After she came back, she observed my changed countenance and wanted to know what happened. I didn't waste time to tell her about what I saw. She was shocked and wanted to back up her unfaithfulness with non-genuine excuses. Anyway, she’s gone for good.
Personally, I don't have a problem dating an older woman, but I hate it when a lady lies about her age—whether it is for love’s sake or another reason. I have now noticed that this act is now rampant among ladies, especially among older unmarried women, in which I have witnessed many time. Probably, it is due to the desperation to get married soon, or could be anything beyond my own reason.
See, ladies, you don't have to lie to younger dudes about your age. If he loves you, he wouldn't think about the age difference, and you walk the aisle eventually. Your manners and truthfulness matter a lot than your age. Be opened and plain to him. Don't let inferiority complex ruin a good relationship or marriage that could have been possible if you had told him the truth at the beginning.
If you're a girl, lady, or woman, please don't do it—your lies could bounce back to hurt you bad.
Source: http://enollywood.com/ladies-please-stop-lying-to-men-about-your-age
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