My people, I need your advice… I am the one
involved!
My cousin (male) came home last Christmas
looking for a wife, I told him about my
girlfriend and we agreed to invite her over
so that he can see her. At last he liked her,
collected her phone number from me,
though I told her before doing that.
But here is the deal between me and him, he
made it clear to me never to disclose what
he does for a living to her now, but rather I
should tell her he is a security man living in
Mushin… ( note: he is a rich business man
but he is afraid to disclose his identity now,
because according to him, he is looking for
a lady that will love him for whom he is and
not for what he is)…
They met, he told her the same thing, after
everything she came to me to know
whether it’s true, I told her yes… But she
should give him a chance, and try to know
him very well… She told me she wasn’t
interested, not ready for marriage yet, I tried
all my best to convince her but to no avail, I
let go!
Later he found another lady, paid her bride
price last February, they are planning for
their traditional marriage soon..
Now, I don’t know how my girlfriend ran
into him and discovered he is a rich
business guy… She called me yesterday
afternoon and gave me the insult of my life.
Her reason is that I shouldn’t have lied to
her in the first place, knowing fully well we
are friends… that a friend is not supposed to
lie to a friend… Her sisters called me and told
me the same thing. But when I tried to
explain things, they hung the phone on me..
I am planning to go over to their
place today to explain things to her sisters
and apologize too, but my own sisters are
still with the opinion that I did nothing
wrong..
What do you think? Did I do the right or the
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