I know many of you probably don’t want to
hear about what you shouldn’t do early on in
your relationship and I know i will get a lot of
nasty mails because of this post.
If you want to have a blissful relationship, don’t
ruin the chances by introducing sex into your
relationship until you are ready for it.
I’m constantly baffled when people can’t figure
out why they keep having failed relationships when they mess them up with physical intimacy. It’s common for couples to kiss on their first date, begin romancing soon afterwards and start a sexual relationship within a few weeks or months
of knowing each other.
I’m not going to tell you how long you should
wait to begin kissing, hugging and making non-
sexual contact, but I’m going to boldly state
that our bodies and minds are not designed for
sexual relationships until marriage.
The average Nigerian has at least 4 sexual
partners before they are married. They either
think each partner is “the one” or they think sex
is so wonderful they don’t want to miss out on
the opportunity.
Sex is indeed wonderful and very special and
saving it for the wedding night is treating it as
something special..!! Sharing it with practically
everyone you date makes it rather ordinary.
Here are just a few of the emotional problems
premarital sex can cause:
When you sleep with someone you aren’t
married to, they begin to get concerned with
how many other people you have slept with.
If you are willing to have sex with someone you
aren’t married to, you will feel the same after
you are married,which is cheating on your
wife.. Rates of affairs are dramatically higher
with those who engage in lots of premarital sex
compared to those who were virgins when
married.
Since sexual relationships were designed for
married couples, your mind naturally begins
pushing the relationship further along than
where you might be.
You might not even know the person you are
sleeping with but you start forming an
emotional attachment to them. Many couples
who really shouldn’t be together are married
because a premarital sexual relationship
“bonded” them together when they wouldn’t
have bonded without being physically intimate.
I’ve talked with quite a few people who waited
to begin a sexual relationship only when they
were married and none of them have regretted
it. I’ve chatted with numerous people who
began a sexual relationship before the wedding
and practically all of them had regrets.
Always remember this: waiting to have sex until
you are married won’t guarantee a blissful
relationship, but it will certainly cause your
mate to honor and respect you much more.
hear about what you shouldn’t do early on in
your relationship and I know i will get a lot of
nasty mails because of this post.
If you want to have a blissful relationship, don’t
ruin the chances by introducing sex into your
relationship until you are ready for it.
I’m constantly baffled when people can’t figure
out why they keep having failed relationships when they mess them up with physical intimacy. It’s common for couples to kiss on their first date, begin romancing soon afterwards and start a sexual relationship within a few weeks or months
of knowing each other.
I’m not going to tell you how long you should
wait to begin kissing, hugging and making non-
sexual contact, but I’m going to boldly state
that our bodies and minds are not designed for
sexual relationships until marriage.
The average Nigerian has at least 4 sexual
partners before they are married. They either
think each partner is “the one” or they think sex
is so wonderful they don’t want to miss out on
the opportunity.
Sex is indeed wonderful and very special and
saving it for the wedding night is treating it as
something special..!! Sharing it with practically
everyone you date makes it rather ordinary.
Here are just a few of the emotional problems
premarital sex can cause:
When you sleep with someone you aren’t
married to, they begin to get concerned with
how many other people you have slept with.
If you are willing to have sex with someone you
aren’t married to, you will feel the same after
you are married,which is cheating on your
wife.. Rates of affairs are dramatically higher
with those who engage in lots of premarital sex
compared to those who were virgins when
married.
Since sexual relationships were designed for
married couples, your mind naturally begins
pushing the relationship further along than
where you might be.
You might not even know the person you are
sleeping with but you start forming an
emotional attachment to them. Many couples
who really shouldn’t be together are married
because a premarital sexual relationship
“bonded” them together when they wouldn’t
have bonded without being physically intimate.
I’ve talked with quite a few people who waited
to begin a sexual relationship only when they
were married and none of them have regretted
it. I’ve chatted with numerous people who
began a sexual relationship before the wedding
and practically all of them had regrets.
Always remember this: waiting to have sex until
you are married won’t guarantee a blissful
relationship, but it will certainly cause your
mate to honor and respect you much more.
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